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Teaching Children to Lose with Grace
Question Our child is a bad loser and will often throw a temper tantrum and throw things around his room. How can we help him become a...
Gary Oliver
Jul 24, 20163 min read
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Unequally Yolked Parenting
Question I am a Christian, but my husband is not. We don’t see eye to eye about parenting issues, which makes it difficult to be a team...
Gary Oliver
Jun 11, 20162 min read
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Household Chores
Question I wish my husband would realize there's more to cleaning than just picking up things. I feel bad complaining, and he gets mad...
Gary Oliver
May 23, 20162 min read
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7 Ways to Help Children Manage Anger
Question We’ve tried everything we can think of to help our son with his anger and nothing seems to help. The more we try to help the...
Gary Oliver
May 11, 20162 min read
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Conveying Concern Rather than Anger
Question When one of my kids makes a mistake that puts them in some kind of danger I often overreact in ways that communicate anger...
Gary Oliver
Apr 11, 20162 min read
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Looking for Signs of Depression
Question Over the past several months we’ve noticed a significant behavior change in our 9-year-old son. He just seems more depressed...
Gary Oliver
Feb 12, 20162 min read
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Disciplining Children and Staying Connected
Question I grew up in a home where my mom nurtured us and where my dad, when he was not on the road, was the disciplinarian. I remember...
Gary Oliver
Jan 23, 20163 min read
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Teaching How to be Responsible
Question We love our 10-year-old daughter but her irresponsibility is driving us crazy. How can we teach her to be more responsible?...
Gary Oliver
Jan 11, 20162 min read
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Frequent Moves
Question My husband is wonderful, but unstable. We’ve moved 16 times during our 18 years of marriage. He says each move is to find a job...
Gary Oliver
Nov 24, 20153 min read
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Moody Son
Question I've been going through a rough patch with my 10-year-old son. I love him, but to tell you the truth, sometimes I just don't...
Gary Oliver
Oct 23, 20153 min read
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Healthy Criticism
Question I often overhear my two daughters criticizing other people. I think they're picking it up from other kids at school, but I want...
Gary Oliver
Jul 24, 20154 min read
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Step-Family Differences
Question My husband and I divorced four years ago. Now he is remarried, and his new wife allows my 10-year-old daughter to watch movies,...
Gary Oliver
Feb 23, 20153 min read
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Chatty Husband
Question Whenever my husband talks to his family on the phone or in person, he tells them too many things. I have spoken to my husband...
Gary Oliver
Nov 24, 20142 min read
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Grandparents are Divorcing!
Question My parents just let us know that, after 36 years of marriage, they are getting a divorce. What is the best way to tell our kids...
Gary Oliver
Sep 11, 20142 min read
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How to Feel Understood when Communicating with Your Mate
“He who restrains his words has knowledge, And he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding.” — Proverbs 17:27 After living...
Gary Oliver
Jul 1, 20143 min read
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Co-Parenting When Values Don’t Match
Question My wife left me for another man and is living with him. She and I share custody of our 15-year-old daughter. That means my...
Gary Oliver
Jun 24, 20142 min read
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Healthy Spouse
Question My husband has had bad experiences with physicians and had cancer in the past. And now he won’t go in for check-ups. I'm afraid...
Gary Oliver
Apr 11, 20143 min read
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From Crisis to Confidence
The year of 1996 began with great expectations in the Oliver home. On Thanksgiving my mom and dad had moved from their Southern...
Gary Oliver
Feb 28, 20144 min read
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Same-page Parenting
Question My husband and I were married six years before we had children, and while we are different in many ways (he's way laid back; I'm...
Gary Oliver
Feb 24, 20143 min read
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Sharing Too Much
Question How much should a spouse express his or her true feelings and thoughts without fear of “rocking the boat?” I get weary of...
Gary Oliver
Nov 24, 20132 min read
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