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Jobless Spouse
Question My husband is showing no initiative to find a job. I'm not sure how much longer I can take this. I love my husband with all my...
Gary Oliver
Aug 12, 20194 min read
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Marriage after Children
Question After spending years praying for a child, God gave us a wonderful little girl. Unfortunately, our precious daughter has changed...
Gary Oliver
Jul 12, 20192 min read
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Loving Your Husband
Question How do I love my husband? Answer This is a great question and one that each one of us needs to ponder frequently regarding our...
Gary Oliver
May 12, 20191 min read
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Dreaming
Question I often have dreams about being unfaithful to my husband. They usually involve a faceless “mystery man” who’s perfect in every...
Gary Oliver
Apr 24, 20193 min read
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Obese Spouse
Question When we married, my husband was a little heavy and I stressed to him at that time how important it was to me that he lose...
Gary Oliver
Jul 23, 20184 min read
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Telling Lies
Question My husband “fibs.” It’s mostly over stupid little things such as leaving the cap off the milk. These little lies drive me crazy...
Gary Oliver
May 24, 20183 min read
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Leave and Cleave
Question My wife and I struggle over the topic of loyalty to each other verses our relationship with each other's family. I don't know...
Gary Oliver
Apr 23, 20182 min read
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Confronting Adultery
Question My husband had an affair with a friend of mine. My husband and I have reconciled. But why do I feel the need to confront this...
Gary Oliver
Oct 12, 20172 min read
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Opposing Interests
Question I'm newly married and have a lot of interests that don’t include my husband, but I always have to negotiate to get to do them. I...
Gary Oliver
May 23, 20172 min read
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“Swimmers” Test Porn
Question My husband and I are having difficulty getting pregnant. He had to go for a “swimmers” test today. They put him in a room with a...
Gary Oliver
Mar 24, 20172 min read
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Old Friends
Question Before we were married, my wife had a lot of guy friends. Now that we’re married, she wants to keep her friends and sees no...
Gary Oliver
Mar 23, 20172 min read
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Unequally Yolked Parenting
Question I am a Christian, but my husband is not. We don’t see eye to eye about parenting issues, which makes it difficult to be a team...
Gary Oliver
Jun 11, 20162 min read
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Acceptable Pornography?
Question My husband enjoys looking at pornography. His excuse is that I am the problem. He says I should know he loves me, and besides,...
Gary Oliver
Mar 11, 20164 min read
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Poor Health
Question My husband was told recently he may have MS. The symptoms have really taken a toll on him… Lately, it seems as if all we do is...
Gary Oliver
Feb 24, 20163 min read
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The Fear Dance
We all have conflict. What we do not see so clearly is that at the core of our conflicts is FEAR. We’re not talking about fear in the...
Gary Oliver
Nov 1, 20152 min read
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Unhappily Married
Question How long is too long to be unhappy? I’ve been married 12 years and unhappy for 10 of them. I’ve asked my husband to attend...
Gary Oliver
Mar 24, 20153 min read
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From Dating to Marriage
From Dating to Marriage?: The stepping stones you need before you make the step from love to marriage. 1. Is this the person God wants me...
Gary Oliver
Feb 1, 20152 min read
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Computer Addict
Question My husband is addicted to the computer! He spends most of his time in front of the screen and stays on until late into the...
Gary Oliver
Dec 11, 20143 min read
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Expressive Wife
Question My wife is touchy-feely with several of my guy friends. She hugs them, holding hands with them briefly, touches their arms or...
Gary Oliver
Oct 11, 20142 min read
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Staying Connected After Having Children
Question We were prepared for the birth of our first child but now, a year later, we realize that we weren’t prepared for all of the...
Gary Oliver
Mar 23, 20142 min read
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