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Miscommunication with Teens
Question We have two teenage children. While we have good relationships, we don’t communicate as well as we’d like. In fact, much of...
Gary Oliver
Dec 1, 20202 min read
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Healthy Conflict
Q: I usually avoid conflict but that hasn’t been working. Is there such a thing as “healthy conflict”? Conflict is a part of life. Even...
Gary Oliver
Apr 2, 20202 min read
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Trading Shifts
Q: How do I navigate covering shifts with my coworkers? A tricky social situation in which so many parts are at play, for this column...
Gary Oliver
Mar 10, 20202 min read
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Roommate issues
Q: How do I talk with my roommate about keeping our room/bathroom clean? (Asking for a friend) Ah, yes. The messy roommate who either...
Gary Oliver
Feb 13, 20202 min read
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Asking for help
Q: How can I ask for help from a classmate? I remember my freshman year. The start of spring semester was great. I enjoyed seeing friends...
Gary Oliver
Jan 22, 20202 min read
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Talking About Sex
Question As I was dropping off some clean laundry in my son’s room recently, I found a package of condoms on the floor. What’s the best...
Gary Oliver
Jul 24, 20193 min read
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Church Division
Question Recently, my husband decided to leave our church because he said he doesn’t feel spiritually led there anymore. I see this as a...
Gary Oliver
May 24, 20193 min read
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How To Forgive Hurt
Question Our teenage son was rejected by several of his friends and his hurt has turned into a bitterness and hatred that concerns us. ...
Gary Oliver
Apr 12, 20192 min read
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Saying Sorry
Question Our 14-year-old daughter is a precious young lady with many strengths. Unfortunately, she isn’t very good at taking...
Gary Oliver
Feb 23, 20192 min read
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How to Prepare Children for Moving
Question We’re preparing for a major move from the only home our three kids have known. At 6, 8 and 11 they’re already experiencing a...
Gary Oliver
Jan 24, 20192 min read
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How Does an Extrovert, Parent an Introverted Child?
Question How does an extrovert parent an introverted child? Answer In Proverbs 22:6 we are exhorted to raise our children in “the way...
Gary Oliver
Dec 24, 20182 min read
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Managing Adolescent Withdrawal
Question Our teenage son has become more withdrawn and isolated in the past few months. Is this normal? Is it something to be concerned...
Gary Oliver
Dec 11, 20182 min read
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How to Parent When Angry
Question As my kids have become teenagers our whole family has noticed that when one of the kids disobeys or mouths off I increasingly...
Gary Oliver
Oct 11, 20182 min read
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Dealing with Anger in Your Child
Question I think that our three-year-old daughter is the stereotypical angry child. When she doesn’t get what she wants at the grocery...
Gary Oliver
Jun 23, 20182 min read
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Disagreeing Spouses
Question My wife and I have problems agreeing on many things. We seem to hold on strongly to our parent’s view. What can we do to start...
Gary Oliver
Mar 23, 20184 min read
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Siblings and Anger
Question We have two young boys who are 19 months apart and they both struggle with anger. We’re doing a better job at managing our...
Gary Oliver
Mar 11, 20174 min read
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Developing Perseverance in Kids
Question Our eight-year-old son gets discouraged very easily gives up. He won’t stay at a task long enough to learn how to do it. ...
Gary Oliver
Jan 24, 20172 min read
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Developing A Healthy Body Image
Question I’m concerned that my daughter has a negative body image and that it’s having a negative impact on her relationships and her...
Gary Oliver
Dec 23, 20163 min read
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Parenting through Grandparent Conflict
Question We have two boys and two girls, and both sets of grandparents enjoy going overboard in their gift-giving. It’s almost like...
Gary Oliver
Oct 23, 20162 min read
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Dealing With The Loss of a Pet
Question Our family pet recently passed away and it’s been very hard on our kids. How can we talk to them about death and help them deal...
Gary Oliver
Sep 11, 20163 min read
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